What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a loving touch filled with attention and presence, without a basic type and predetermined result. Tantra massage is provided from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body participates and erotic zones can likewise be touched. Of course, always with respect for (shared) limits. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy also gets attention. A tantra massage occurs on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection between massage giver and receiver. Mentally, physically, at heart level and sometimes even at the depths of body and soul. The function of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the instructions of) a natural, thrilled state of being. The result is often a terrific physical, mental wellness. Typically, the receiver is extremely unwinded, incredibly streaming and winding up well in the heart, and in higher spheres.
Tantric Massage is all about Loving touch
A tantric massage is a loving touch filled with attention and existence. Tantra massage is given from the heart. Many touch will take location through the hands (or body to body) it is actually love that touches. The hands of the provider are linked with his/her heart. The touch is loving, constantly focused on the well-being of the receiver. The recipient is also present, and receives active as well as feels (eventually) from the heart. Be loving!
Loaded with attention and presence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a caring touch loaded with attention and presence. Both the giver and the receiver are entirely present. Do not consider yesterday or tomorrow. Do not take a look around or being busy with something else, no, your complete attention is on offering or receiving the massage. An extremely mindful touch from the heart. Receive also really knowingly, feeling it in your heart. Tantra massage is not about routine, fixed patterns are really out of the question. Everything occurs in the moment, completely awareness, lovingly attuned to each other and the situation. Dreaming away or falling asleep is likewise not meant (still, when that's what you need, it's okay).
A tantric massage isn't about a fixed outcome
A tantric massage will always be different. It is not the strategy or the desired sequence of massaging that is important, it's about exactly what is appropriate/necessary. And so the massage will be precisely that exactly what is needed.
Tantric massages therefore typically take an extremely surprising course. Whatever suits a larger whole. A tantric massage does not constantly have to be "great", ending in bliss. A "failed" massage can be the initial step in a fantastic advancement.
How to get the very best from your tantric massage
Always with regard to limitations
We understood it for a long time, of course, however given that the #MeToo revelations, some things have actually come up in the world of tantra massage. Of course, this has little to do with tantric massage.
Set clear limits beforehand
Every person (other than when you are enlightened) has his limitations. This is human and is also essential (read the post on securing limits. Believe in advance (both as giver and receiver) what your limits are. Make sure there is an appropriate intake, and a good preparation (also with your lover/massage partner). Set clear boundaries in advance: about mental borders, and also take care for clearness about physical limits. It is a misunderstanding that a tantric massage must always be naked, nonsense. With clothes on is also entirely okay (however hard to work with oil then). It is also a misconception that a tantric massage must be concentrated on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), rubbish too. Personally, we have given/received lots of tantric massages just on the head. In addition, really each cell is sensual, but you will be surprised.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Trigger and let flow easily
Activating and freeing the flow of life energy (prana) is the primary part of tantra massage. In a tantric massage, the whole body gets involved and erogenous zones can also be touched. In tantra massage we play with the activation of fundamental/ sexual/ psychological/ enthusiastic/ love/ production/ user-friendly energy.
Concentrated on the natural happy state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage belongs to "real" tantra. Well ... Tantra is an extremely practical, body-oriented movement, a vision of life focused on growing in love and consciousness. In a split second you can become informed (by 1000% surrender), however normally, that is a process in time. Tantra knows different techniques to utilize on the journey to knowledge. As far as we are worried, tantra massage is one of them. Tantra has no function other than self-realization: restoring the natural (ecstatic) state of being.
Typically leading to a wonderful physical, psychological wellness
This is likewise the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is generally good, in some cases delicious. We, for that reason, welcome you to completely take pleasure in receiving ánd providing a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't?
There are lots of types of massage. Obviously, all massages have certain practices and techniques in typical. There is a big distinction with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (aimed at relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Sexual massage (focused on pleasure fulfillment).
* (Body) therapy (aimed at healing).
Well because you are truly extremely energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT a sexual massage either. It's a kind of style these days to see tantra massage as a treatment, however therapy is an occupation apart.
The essentials of tantric massage.
For a comprehensive explanation, see the article on the fundamentals of tantric massage. In summary, the following basics stand apart:
Tantra massage pointers-- before you begin
* Produce a warm, confutable tantric massage area (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Supply good conditions (physically, however likewise mentally).
* Make clear agreements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage ideas-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end linked to each other.
* Always keep your attention on the massage.
* Ensure your massage is demand free, don't push or require anything.
* Open your own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Trigger (sexual) energy and disperse it throughout the entire body.
* Do not just use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* When in a while ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Enjoy!
* Utilize your senses.
* Give feedback (enjoyment sounds?).
* Integrate in integration (rest) minutes.
A tantra massage is not a work task, so as a giver you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Once again, do not try to enforce anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! You might not be waiting for a psychological cry, but a tantric massage has no objective.
Tantra massage tips-- after the massage.
* Take sufficient time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Require time to exchange your experiences.
* Realize that a tantric massage can have an effect for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not right away go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 important tantra massage tips (insights/rules).
* Don't work to an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a pleased ending massage? Yes it can be, it usually is however there is no pressure for you to perform, this has to do with letting that energy flow.
* Respect boundaries, set clear limits beforehand. Our masseuses are mostly extremely open minded - they are naturally due to the fact that of the nature of their work however they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the wishes of the recipient in mind, obviously. Understand that it can turn out differently.
* It is always an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Activate sexual energy. Energize the whole body. Being aroused is typical and desirable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are essential! news A lot can turn up.
* Be alert to restored freezing moments. Avoid limits from being crossed once again.
* Action by step becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Beware: no sex! Practice makes best. Enjoying the restored balance and connection between sex and heart.
* Offer feedback (e.g. satisfaction noises) and supply combination moments (just not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual fulfillment, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage take place?
Do not discharge, however recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we imply do not hurry to the climatic ending, hold it, be in the moment, let that sexual energy build and flood your whole body.
Possible results of tantric massage.
Offers peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you from your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and relaxed (however you will not go to sleep). During/after the massage it ends up being quiet in your head (often completely empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of incredibly flowing life energy. Your body armor becomes softer, thinner or even disappears. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a potential recovery result. It is possible that clogs, psychological injuries concern the surface area. There may be a psychological release, including physical responses such as shaking, crying, shocks. Despite the fact that tantra massage is not the very same as recovery, this release may recover some blockades.
Makes you soft and loving.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You become more loving, you learn what it is like to love yourself.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The mix of relaxation and a lot of energy suggests that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
In brief, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Filled with attention and existence.
* The entire body participates.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without basic type, without predefined outcome.
* With respect to (mutual) boundaries.
* Establishes a (heart) connection between the provider and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, happy state of being of the recipient.
* Typically resulting in a fantastic physical, mental wellness (of both).